Matthew Robert Wrenn

Every day the thought of going on without you takes my breath away.  I miss you so terribly.  This hasn't gotten any eaiser.  I just want my baby brother to come back to me.  I dream about your accident, and I can't stop thinking about you suffering.  I would have done anything to have changed this.  I see your friends and I get so angry.  It's hard to understand how they go on laughing and living.  I know how selfish this is, but I just always wanted your life to be wonderful.  Cade says you are running over angels in heaven, and he is so sure of this.  Braden just wants you to come back and take him out on the motorcycle.  I don't want the boys to ever lose the memories of what a wonderful man you were.  I just don't know if I can do this Matthew, help us to understand.  I love you so much, and I don't know if my heart can ever be mended.  Especially right now I need you here to hug me and tell me you love me.  I know you always tried to be understanding of our mistakes, and you loved us no matter what.  You were the first boy to love me unconditionally.   I miss you, and need you so badly.  Lisa and I miss our little man so.

I wish there were words of comfort but I know all to well that there are none. I also lost my sweet daughter in a car accident. I suffer every day from the pain of not having her in my life as I know you also do. No mother should have to say good bye to their child. Just know there are other who know the pain and it is ours alone to bear. May God give you peace
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Where do I begin? I never knew your handsome Matthew, but I thank you from the bottom of my heart for visiting our son's site and lighting a candle for him. (http://andrew-collins.last-memories.com)  Life isn't always fair, nor can we justify the tragedies that are sent our way.  The loss of a child is like no other; I wouldn't wish this lonliness, this pain and void, on anyone.  We know in our hearts that our boys are in Heaven and that God is good to them.  It's simply such an adjustment attempting to move forward without them.  The realization that they aren't coming back, will take some time.  I'm not sure that I'll ever actually accept that, but I do know that with time, I'm beginning to learn how to smile again and to laugh at some of the things that Andrew did or said without bursting into tears.  It helps to talk about your son and it also becomes very therapeutic to maintain a journal.

I wish you and your family hugs and prayers.  I know that you're journey has just begun and please, email me anytime if you need to vent.  debi.lynne@hotmail.com

Debi Collins

                    

Hey buddy.

             We miss ya soo much.You were jus like a brother to me matt and I think about you every morning and every night. you've touched our life in so many different ways. Nathans still doing good in church, i guess you kno that tho. I kno ure smiling down on us and I kno that you wouldnt come back to us even if ya could. I still think sometimes that its jus a bad dream. Hunter still asks about ya.Im not gonna let him forget ya.. I kno ure watching over us* jus help us get thru all this.. We love ya soo much buddy. You will forever be in our hearts and I cant wait to see you again someday. We love you lotz

Buddy, I visit this page everyday.  You have touched so many lives that you just wouldn't believe it.  My life is forever changed and the only peace I have is knowing that you are with the Lord.  Kimberly and I don't know what to do without our little brother.  You were the most special man to both of us.  We are struggling but want to make you proud.  Our family isn't right without you.  You were a true blessing.  Your presence is with me everyday and always will be.  I miss you so much words can't even express.  Mom is holding on the Lord and you buddy, keep her strong.  We all need you so much.  Keep looking down on us and giving us your strength. 

I will meet you again someday.  Be waiting for me.  I want to hug you so bad.

I love you little man.

                                                      

 

 

 

I love you and miss you. You are always in my thoughts. As I come to this page and read the candles I know that you were so loved. I feel that this is a place we can come and be with you and remember you as the amazing person that you were. You are truly one of those people that  when you left, so many lifes were forever changed and we were so lucky to have had you in our lives. I wish that I could bring you back,but I cant and that is so sad.... I will see you soon and when I do we  will go on a long road trip. ....

 

Sandy and "Bugs", I am so sorry I couldn't be at the wake or funeral for you, but I know  you realize I was sick. I can't begin to understand your loss or what you are going through, but I know that God is there for you. You both are good Christian people, but I'm sure at times like this, your faith can grow weak. I just want you to know that I am so sorry for your loss, and that you are in my thoughts more than you know. I love you all, Cathy

I will never forget the night you died. I just could not believe it. When we got to the hosptial and was told they were working on you, I thought he will be ok and tomorrow we will be joking with you, but soon I knew that that would not be the case. I cant tell you the void you have left. I wish there was something I could do to help your Mom but there is nothing that will fill the hole you have forever left in our lifes. We miss you and love you----